Gifts are full of meaning for giver and receiver

Shuffle these into the giftss

A is something we would not buy for ourselves.
B that damages the relationship
C when you already have one
D but the symbolism
E when it takes things to the next level
F that you have chosen particularly carefully
G who gives a vacuum cleaner
H is an affirming present
I who always has showers
J that we select so carefully each year
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